FAQs

It is a mutual decision between the agency and you. Having a child come live with you is a big commitment, so finding the right match is crucial.  Children are placed in foster homes by matching their needs with foster parents’ or families’ situations. You will never be forced to accept a foster child you are not prepared to help. You select the level of needs and age group of the children you would like to foster.

We offer substantial support to you and your family. A Foster Care Specialist will be available 24/7 to help you handle any questions or deal with unexpected developments. You and your child will have a therapist who works with you to help address the issues of loss, anger and behavior management. You are encouraged to attend support groups where you can connect with and get help from other foster parents.

Many of them do, to some degree. They are frightened and confused at the sudden separation from their parents. Some are angry. Others may think they are being sent to a foster home as punishment. Even babies may be fretful and irritable at first. These problems gradually lessen, as a foster child comes to trust that you care for them.

The first goal is to return foster children to their birth families, whenever it is possible. However, sometimes it is not possible for children to return home and no relatives can be found to provide appropriate care. If the permanent plan for the child becomes adoption and the child has been living in your home, you will be given the opportunity to consider becoming the adoptive parent. Since our agency dually approves all homes for foster care and adoption, you will already have met all the regulatory requirements for becoming an adoptive parent.

Yes. This is the hardest part about being a foster parent. You will feel sad for a time, and feel a loss. It is only natural, since a part of that child will live in your heart forever. Many foster parents find comfort and understanding from other foster parents through support groups. Some foster parents find comfort in the fact that there will be new foster children who need their care and affection. And others get gratification from knowing they have helped a family become whole again, but all must go through a grief process.

No. Foster parents receive monthly compensation per child, and the child or children are totally covered for medical and dental expenses. There is a resource room to assist with placement needs such as school clothes. Also, you receive free specialized training from experienced staff.